Showing posts with label dream. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dream. Show all posts

Thursday, October 3, 2013

Pinterest Makes a Dream Come True


Pinterest truly does help make dreams and wishes a reality. Just by simply creating a themed board makes it easy for individuals to find what they need to make moments in life magical and inspirational. Highlighting those magical moments worked for Ryan Leak and his then-girlfriend Amanda Roman on June 7, 2013.
This past September, Leak posted a YouTube video called “The Surprise Wedding” where he took pieces from his girlfriend’s “My Dream Wedding” board to plan their auspicious occasion. Leak’s mission was three major things that rainy Saturday in Miami, Fla.: 1) to share his love for Roman, 2) to propose to her and 3) to marry Roman. Leak explained that he heard his girlfriend share that she would like to get engaged and married all in the same day.
Starkey's Pinterest Board
Once Leak was convinced he wanted to marry Roman, he went to the social media site for ideas and clues. Roman had no idea of anything. Despite Leak’s strategic and detailed plans of how the day was going to go, the weather interfered and rerouted the schedule of events that Saturday.
“We had all types of things planned, but plans change,” Leak said. “We are adaptable.”
Surrounded by nearly 100 close friends and family, it all came together in the end. “We know why we work. It’s not because we share the same moral values,” Leak said. “What makes us tick, what makes us go is Jesus Christ.”
They wanted their guests to also share in the presence of God.
After five years of dating, Leak confessed his love for Roman, asked her to marry him, and made her his wife in one day. Yes, it was all in one day just like Roman dreamed it’d be. We congratulate them on their union!

That’s some fairy tale story. Now who says fairy tales never happen? Ladies, you better get your Pinterest board building because you never know if your beau is secretly planning your wedding. 

Saturday, September 28, 2013

PHREAdom Leaders: Brittany Yates

Brittany Yates, Executive Director &
Founder of Endless Dreams Foundation
http://www.endlessdreamsfoundation.org
Brittany Yates always wanted to start her own non-profit organization. Yates accomplished that goal in 2011, when she officially incorporated Endless Dreams Foundation while working on her Bachelor’s degree from Johnson C. Smith University in Charlotte, N.C.
“It was just in me,” the young entrepreneur said. “I love helping people.”
She is able to do so through Endless Dreams Foundation.
Endless Dreams Foundation’s mission is “to encourage the youth to set, pursue, and complete their goals.” The organization incorporates this mission by offering programs and services including mentoring, tutoring, and various workshops to help build a lasting relationship within the community.
The youth organization is based in both Charlotte and Washington, D.C. Yates lives in Washington, D.C. where she works full-time in the finance department at the Children’s National Medical Center. However, she travels often to Charlotte, N.C. She has a full team of interns, board of directors, and committee members who help with the operation of the organization.
Endless Dreams Foundation will expand its Academic Dreams program by the end of the year. The Academic Dreams will kick off in the Charlotte area to offer college tours, mentoring and tutoring year round, and parent workshops to help educate them about FAFSA and scholarships for their future college student. It will eventually expand to the Washington, D.C. area. However, both areas are currently looking for volunteers to serve as mentors and tutors.
What is Beauty
This past summer, Girl You Crazy and Endless Dreams Foundation teamed up to host the What is Beauty Campaign. The campaign featured a two month long discussion on discovering the true meaning and essence of beauty.
Yates said she started looking at statistics and realized that only one in every two girls felt like they were beautiful.
It was established to focus on self-esteem and build women empowerment as a unit and sisterhood.
During the campaign, the two organizations hosted a Women’s Empowerment Brunch which brought all women together to discuss beauty and self-esteem.
“Everyone’s definition of beauty was different,” Yates said. “It was good to see the different views.”
The Value of Time
The 23-year-old has a busy schedule, but her motto is that “everything can be done” with time management. Between Endless Dreams and working full-time, Yates is also working on her Master’s in Business Administration from Trinity College to become a well-rounded business woman. She blocks off time in her schedule to make sure she is able to accomplish everything she needs to do on a daily basis including her social life.
Passion to Serve
Yates is passionate about serving in different aspects of life. She loves serving her community and helping people out in general. She explained that if she meets someone or one of her friends are working on a new venture or project, she is always willing to lend a hand. 
"I always want to help," she insisted. 
Hope to Inspire
The business woman hopes to inspire other aspiring entrepreneurs by reading her story as an entrepreneur, leader and Endless Dreams.
She wants them to realize that they can do the same thing, she said. "I want to change the lives of others."
Respect in the Non-Profit
For anyone familiar with non-profit organization, they receive the majority of their funding through donations, sponsors, and mostly grants. However, Yates explained for non-profits you have to earn respect from the community in order to secure any funding especially grants. 
"You have to prove yourself," Yates said. "Nobody will give you money if they don't know you or respect you."
Most people are aware of the larger names like United Way and the American Red Cross versus smaller non-profits, she said. 
Endless Dreams works to build respect by consistently reaching out to the community and schools. They are making their presence known in both the Charlotte and Washington, D.C. areas.
Empowered to Do More
"When I get to see other people succeeding, it empowers me to do more," Yates said. The success of the others instills a self-empowerment for her to keep pushing and keep doing more.
One of her friends is a journalist, it empowered her to consider the idea of writing as well, she explained. Although her schedule is quite busy, she doesn't feel like she is doing as much. She feels like she can always do more. 
Ambition to Fulfill Goals and Dreams
Endless Dreams Foundation focus on helping the youth achieve their goals, therefore, it is quite fitting for the executive director to have similar ambitions. While Yates is ambitious about the community and helping people especially those who want to help themselves, setting and achieving goals and dreams are just as important. 
Yates' vision board sits above her desk at work so that she is able to look at the goals and vision as well as look at what she already accomplished. 
The vision board has two sides, she said. Goals and vision on one side, and what was accomplished on the other side. 
"I work towards it every day," Yates said. 
She always leaves room for another venture to add onto her vision board. 
"I wasn't planning on getting my MBA," she explained, but she added it to her board once the decision was made.

Yates is a true definition of an entrepreneur. She takes risks. She sets goals and work towards achieving everything she wants to do. 
For more information about Endless Dreams Foundation, you can visit their Web site here, follow them on Instagram at Endless Dreams Foundation or Twitter at @NoEnd2Dreaming, and like them on Facebook here

Thursday, September 6, 2012

A Pipe Dream just needs a little bit of Draino




First, I would like to apologize for not writing as frequently as I would like to, but I've had a pretty interesting schedule lately. It's okay because I know everything that I am doing right now is falling within my purpose. This post relates to being purposeful and turning dreams into reality. I hope you enjoy it, my fellow PHREAdom Followers!

A pipe dream isn't really a pipe dream, but rather a dream that just needs a little bit of Draino to flush it out into the world. A pipe dream, as defined in the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, is merely a fantasy of a plan, hope, or story. My personal thought is that it is only a pipe dream if you just let that idea sit and you do nothing with it. This is similar to its origin of a pipe dream where individuals hallucinated while smoking opium back in the 19th century. Individuals got high on an idea, but once the high was gone so was the idea.

McLyte at boule

The idea of following through with a plan or hope may seem difficult and fear could take over, but one may never know how easy it could've been if he or she never developed and expanded on the idea. It takes faith and trust. For instance, I am reminded of our great leaders of the past and present like Dr. Martin Luther King or President Barack Obama, who if they had not pushed their dreams forward some things may not have changed. What if Dr. King did not push the issue of equal rights nor shared his powerful "I Have a Dream" speech because of one too many road blocks? Or better yet, what if President Obama gave up on his dream of becoming the President of the United States? They both pushed those dreams forward and made a difference in the lives of others. Our dreams may not be as big as theirs, but it can still be impactful.
My soror, McLyte said we must "dream with a purpose" at the National Education Fund Luncheon during Sigma Gamma Rho Sorority, Inc.'s Boule in New Orleans, La.
Therefore, if we dream with a purpose and work hard at it then it may become a reality. Don't sell yourself short because what may seem like a pipe dream to some may be an extraordinary purposeful vision that requires a little bit of Draino to push it out.
<3 Starkey